Offer, Negotiation, and Closing
An offer is the start of a negotiation, not the end of the process.
Your leverage and strategy depend heavily on company archetype, your alternatives, and your timeline.
What to do when you get the offer
- Get the full package details in writing.
- Ask about level and leveling rationale.
- Ask about team matching (if applicable).
- Ask for the decision deadline.
Also:
- Ask what parts are negotiable (many companies won’t say directly, but you can infer).
- Confirm if there are refreshers, relocation, and what the vesting schedule is.
What to negotiate
Depends on company archetype, but typically:
- Base salary
- Equity (grant size; refreshers)
- Signing bonus
- Start date / relocation
Sometimes negotiable (depending on company):
- Title (rare)
- Level (sometimes via re-leveling)
- Remote/hybrid exceptions (varies widely)
- Education budget / equipment (more common in smaller companies)
Archetype differences (how offers behave)
- FAANG / Big Tech: compensation is often more structured; biggest levers are level, equity, sign-on, and competing offers.
- Unicorns / startups: equity terms and strike price matter; risk-adjust your view of equity; cash may be tighter.
- Enterprise: base and bonus may dominate; equity may be smaller; stability/role scope may be the real “value.”
- Automotive/industrial: compensation bands can be rigid; negotiate role scope, level, relocation, flexibility.
How to negotiate effectively
- Anchor with competing offers (best leverage).
- Frame as wanting to join, but needing the package to work.
- Be specific and polite.
Simple negotiation script:
I’m excited about the role and I want to make this work. Based on my current compensation and the other processes I’m in, I’m targeting a total package closer to X. Is there flexibility on base/sign-on/equity to close that gap?
Common mistakes
- Negotiating without understanding the full package.
- Revealing your minimum too early.
- Asking for everything at once without prioritizing.
- Treating negotiation as adversarial.
Cross-links
- Offer negotiation playbook: 08-CAREER/04-Offer-Negotiation.md
- Interview day ops (closing behaviors): 03-INTERVIEWS/09-Interview-Day-Operations.md
Grounding sources
- Tech Interview Handbook (process overview and typical offer stage): https://www.techinterviewhandbook.org/software-engineering-interview-guide/